LILNR is a volunteer-run nonprofit dedicated to BDSM/kink education, awareness, safety and community on Long Island.
This is a space to learn, connect and grow - at your own pace, in your own way.
HOW WE
CONNECT
Building community. Sharing knowledge. Creating safe, supportive spaces to grow and belong.
COMMUNITY
EDUCATION
ROPE
SOCIALS
PLAY
SAFETY
Real conversations.
Read connections.
A space where everyone belongs.
Classes & workshops
on a wide range of
kink and BDSM topics.
Practice, learn and share rope skills together in a safe supportive space.
Meetings & gatherings
to connect, build friendships & strengthen our community.
Vetted play events
focused on connection, exploration & skill-building in a respectful environment.
Education and awareness focused on consent, boundaries and safety.